The Goodwins

It has been one week since we brought our two year old home. Our little Ella is doing well. We have good nights and bad nights. Last night was one of those a bit worse than others. We finally got her to sleep at about 12:30 and her 7 AM medicine time came way too early for both Ella and her folks.

Tomorrow we head back to Children’s Memorial to have Ella’s drainage tubes out and then learn how to inject the saline into her expanders. We are blessed that one of our friends from our church is a nurse and her husband agreed to take the day off of work (he’s a co-worker of mine at Whirlpool) and she will join us at the doctor’s office to learn how to do the expansion, along with me, to be a standby if I am out of town due to work or if I simply can’t handle it. Bonnie has already decided that she’s not going to be the one to “blow up our daughter’s head” as I have been heard to say.

Ella’s head was shaved in a few places to view he edges of her nevus so once the “surgery hat” comes off we will need to figure out a new hair style. Right now she looks like she has an older sibling that decided to “help” give her a hair cut. I’m guessing Bonnie won’t be a proponent of the Sinead O’Connor look so we may need to be creative with it. We’re not sure if we can wash her hair when we get back tomorrow, but it sure can use a good cleaning.

We put Ella down to bed about an hour ago and I still hear here moving around downstairs in her room through the baby monitor, so please keep her sleep (and her folks‘) in your prayers. Please also keep in your prayers a successful, safe trip and that Ella tolerates the expansion reasonably well and remains her cheerful self!

Bonnie and I have found that Saint Joseph, MI is a very welcoming city, or at least we’ve been very fortunate to connect with some very welcoming people and neighbors.¹ We even found a wonderful small group and Sunday school class at The Chapel which help us missing all the wonderful people that held us in their prayers so fervently at the Newton First Baptist Church.

Unfortunately in less than a year, two couples to whom we grew close have or are departing from St. Joseph.

First, the Marchenko’s moved to pastor the Christian Fellowship E-Free Church in Chicago.² While we can keep updated on Sergei through his blog, it’s just not the same. Bonnie sure misses Gillian, and Ella certainly misses their girls. They are real rocks upon which we can lean especially as their daughter Polly, a mere four days older than Ella, also had Down syndrome. Sergei is a calming force in my hectic life and has been a great sounding board who I miss as well.

Second, Chris and Sarah, other members of our Sunday School or “ABF”, are also moving this Friday to the east coast. They are two very fun people who we’ll miss their joy in life and in the Lord and are certain will continue to share that with those who are fortunate to meet them upon their arrival at their new town.

Fellowship with friends are certainly important and we cherish the friends we had an Newton, IA³ but are thankful for those God brought into our lives here in Saint Joseph.

We have been blessed in so many ways and we are reminded of that every morning when Ella hollers “Dad!”

1. Now, I’m not saying the neighbors aren’t people but just pointing out specifically that we’re fortunate to have many very welcoming neighbors [↩]
2. Located at 3425 Damen Ave in Chicago. Call (773) 348-3450 for more information. Ask for Sergei, who gives great sermons. [↩]
3. Not to forget those Bonnie had in Denver and I had in Atlanta before we both returned to Iowa [↩]